Girls Who Get It
A song about female friendship, shared chaos, and the people who understand you without needing the whole explanation.
Girls Who Get It is a love letter to the friends who make life feel survivable.
I mean the friends who can tell from one look across a room that something is wrong. The ones who know when to hype you up, when to tell you the truth, when to take your phone away, and when to sit with you in silence because they know you’ve run out of words. The ones who can decode an entire emotional crisis from a screenshot and a three-word message.
A lot of people treat songs about friendship like they’re automatically lighter or less serious than love songs, but I don’t feel that way at all. Female friendship has been one of the biggest stabilising forces in my life. Mila has always been my anchor, and in Chicago I found other girls who helped me feel less alone in my own chaos.
This song is fun because those friendships are fun. There’s humour, drama, borrowed eyeliner, bathroom pep talks, voice notes, snacks, bad decisions and rescue missions.
But underneath all of that, Girls Who Get It is about being known. Properly known. Not because you explained yourself perfectly, but because someone stayed long enough to learn your language.